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So your pastor has left

“The pastor search team will meet this Thursday…”

Normally I have a pretty good poker face. In this case, though, I nearly wrenched my neck swiveling it so fast from my notes on the pulpit toward the layperson making this announcement from the choir loft. The congregation’s previous minister had exited a mere five days prior, and a search team for his settled replacement was already up and running. (I won’t leave you in suspense about how this story ends. The church called a pastor who was almost the polar opposite of his embattled predecessor. He served for 3.5 years, then was asked to leave. This sequence of events fit neatly into a long-running, unexamined pattern in the congregation.)

When a pastor departs, a church’s inclination is to ask how quickly they can locate a replacement. That is totally understandable. When we experience change - whether positive or negative - there is discomfort. We want to return to equilibrium as quickly as possible. But the time between pastors is bursting with opportunities that are largely unavailable during more settled periods. Here are a few:

  • Healing from conflict or grief associated with the previous pastor (or pastors, if there are still open wounds from situations with the most recent pastor’s predecessors)

  • Remembering or discovering anew who the church is apart from the personality of a charismatic or long-tenured pastor

  • Assessing the congregation’s purpose, gifts, and needs in a new season of ministry and a world changed by Covid

  • Right-sizing or reconfiguring staff to meet those needs

  • Inviting other staff or lay leaders to exercise or develop talents they haven’t previously

  • Leaning more intentionally into potentially transformational practices as part of the pastor search

  • Connecting or reconnecting with partners or resources that could inform the pastor search, and more broadly, the church’s ministry

  • Receiving and mulling pastoral candidates’ thoughtful questions about the church’s nature and hopes

  • Creating or shoring up procedures that improve communication and strengthen trust

  • Considering how to welcome the new pastor in ways that develop mutual care quickly

All of this is the holy work of the transition time. It sets up not just your new pastor but your church as a whole to live even more faithfully into God’s invitations. And your congregation doesn’t need to fear taking the time needed to harness all these opportunities, because while you might want an interim pastor to keep things moving and to help you reflect on the points above, the congregation - not a pastor - is the church.

So please, do not form your pastor search team the moment your departing pastor steps over the threshold for the last time. Breathe deeply. Trust God. Open your hearts and minds to the opportunities. You will be so glad that you did.

If your pastor search team needs assistance with making the most of the transition, contact me about search team coaching or check out this self-paced e-course.

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